sex personality - psychology today

Different strokes for different folks; it's a common truth that applies not only to everyday life and habits, but also to the secretive world of the bedroom. What heats one person's engines may cool off another’s, and everyone expresses the natural human need for sexual intimacy in a unique and individual way. That's the beauty of our species - we are not homogeneous robots. Just as we love and communicate with others in different ways, so too do we bring diverse styles with us into the bedroom.

Your results on this test suggest that you are very open-minded when it comes to sexuality. You seem to welcome new experiences within the realm of sex and even if you aren't comfortable with a particular ingredient of it, you’re not the type to judge those who indulge themselves. Overall, you are not threatened by the diverse sexual tastes that make this world go round. In fact, you seem to be quite willing to tolerate sexual behavior that colors outside of the lines of “normalcy”, as long as both partners are into it. Keep up that attitude! (Just make sure to be just as respectful and tolerant of those who aren’t as sexually liberal as you!)

Overall results (score 89)


Overall attitude towards sexuality based on a continuum from conventional to liberal.

Your results on this test suggest that you are very open-minded when it comes to sexuality. You seem to welcome new experiences within the realm of sex and even if you aren't comfortable with a particular ingredient of it, you’re not the type to judge those who indulge themselves. Overall, you are not threatened by the diverse sexual tastes that make this world go round. In fact, you seem to be quite willing to tolerate sexual behavior that colors outside of the lines of “normalcy”, as long as both partners are into it. Keep up that attitude! (Just make sure to be just as respectful and tolerant of those who aren’t as sexually liberal as you!)

Spiciness (score 54)


Tendency and desire to be sexually innovative and explorative.

Your results indicate that you are comfortable experimenting sexually, but haven't explored a wide variety of options from the great palette of sex. You do have a creative nature, which keeps your sexual liaisons satisfactorily spicy, but generally prefer to stick to what's familiar. You seem to have discovered what pleases you, and plan to stick with it! As long as you are sexually fulfilled, keep it up!

Sexual Daredevil (score 20)


Level of sexual adventurousness and boldness.

According to the Sexual Daredevil Index, more daring sexual play (e.g. bondage, S&M, swinging, etc.) doesn't seem to strike your fancy. You tend to shy away from sex play that is exhilaratingly daring and appear to be downright disinclined to venture into the more wild side of the sexual realm. As long as you’re content with your tamer ways, then by all means, enjoy yourself! If however, you want to be more adventurous but are a little shy or unsure, try talking to your partner about your desire to be more of a daredevil.

Sexual Expression (score 100)


Comfort with expressing wants, desires, and sexuality in general.

It appears as though you are comfortable voicing your desires and sexuality in general, and likely have a partner who shares the same openness. This is essential for a healthy sex life. Sure, it takes courage to discuss sexuality, and there may be times when your partner will reject your ideas, but if you don’t voice them you’ll never know! Remember, however, that daring and adventurous sexual exploits (as well as sex in general) must be consensual, so it's okay for your partner to decline your suggestions. Given your open nature, it is quite likely that you will find a common ground that is exciting and mutually satisfying for both you and your partner.